I ’m sure many of you have read many guides on women, but how many of you can say that you’ve properly inputted the given advice? Of course, you have nerds that haven’t addressed their core issues and continue to fail with women, but I’m referring to you men that have a healthy mental state and social skills and don’t have time to be a nerd? Well, guess what, if you want consistency, then you’re going to have to become a nerd to an extent.

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It’s not enough to just read seduction guides, go out, and wing it. You really have to study them. Not only that, but you need to use your own case studies and documentation to compare to these guides. If you’ve properly study these guides, and compare your documentation to them, step by step, then you will start to see drastic improvements.

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I’ve seen guys that have read The Mystery Method or The Attraction Formula etc, and I see two problems. The first being that guys understand all of the seduction terms and concepts, but they don’t work on implementing them properly; they still operate in too general of a mindset. This is why men are big fans of direct and shotgun style game: it allows them to be mentally lazy.

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For instance, when a guy thinks “opener”, he thinks “opening line” and he doesn’t think “use an aggressive opener for hot girls”, “address the non-targets first”, “come in at a slightly higher energy” etc. Or when a guy thinks “neg”, he thinks “use them whenever and he doesn’t think “use them strategically”, “test her, and if she complies, reward her.”, “only neg specific girls” etc.

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The next big mistake that I see a lot of men making, is that when they don’t document, they don’t realize where they went wrong. For instance, said guy may approach a girl, seem to be having a good time, but can’t seem to cross that friendship line. Why is this? He doesn’t realize that what he is doing is wrong if he hopes to get laid. Sure, you may be really cool with a bartender or hot girl, but you aren’t going to lay her.

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Had said guy documented, he would have seen that maybe he was suppose to initially ignore her, or maybe he was suppose to move her to another location and get a little more intimate. Instead, he stayed there laughing, joking, and in the clear view of her friends. Although he might make new friends, he isn’t building any sexual relationships. Can you see where I’m going with this? There is a lot of strategy to take in, and if you don’t document, you won’t remember the mistakes you’re making, and if you don’t study, you won’t remember the specifics of a proper strategy. Studying guides and documenting after every outing is a lot of work, so guys choose to just try implementing the general concepts and not the specifics. Why? Because most guys don’t remember the specifics. Not enough study time.

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You need to study and you need to have documentation to compare to your plan. Becoming a very successful pickup artist is no different than any other profession. It’s a combination of book smarts, field experience, and developing a strategy that is proven to work. Gamble if you’d like, but it’s your time, your money, and it’s you who will suffer the consequences.

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